A marriage and a wedding are two very different things that we kept reminding each other of.

We didn't want just a "wedding", we wanted a "marriage". 

The kind of marriage that never puts each other the pressure of being a "husband" or a "wife", because what does that all mean?

While some are drunk in the idea of an ideal "marriage" or "wedding", 

we define our own meaning of our own marriage.

We'd like to think that we are equals in this relationship; partners.

Married or not, we are still two people, who are willing to be together. 

Because we made each other better.

 

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I'm not an expert in "being married" or "being an ideal wife", but I'll always try my best to be the better version of myself.

And I think that there is, nor will ever be such thing as an "ideal" marriage, wife, husband, wedding.

You define your own marriage, wedding, life.

And you may not find it when you're 25, 30, or even 50.

But at least you're trying, for as long as you breathe.

Be original. Be real. Be true to yourself.

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With love.

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